My husband and I’ve been married for 10 years. He used to cook for me before our marriage, but he has been too lazy to do that for a long time after our marriage. Honestly, I’ve been quite unhappy with that. However, I didn’t mind cooking all the time, as my work was easier and flexible. It was natural for me to do most of the house work while he was too busy leaving home 7:30am and returning home after 9pm from Monday to Friday, and resting during the weekends.
My husband changed his work style, and now both of us are working from home.
We chose more freedom in exchange for security, stability, social status, and enough income at the first few years. We need to work online so we can have an option to live outside Japan, if we wish to. (I may not work from home in the near future, if he stays at home, though.)
Anyhow, thus there’s one happy change! My husband started to cook for me! He actually loves cooking, which I didn’t even know!! (*0*) I’m OK for cleaning the room, keep things neat and tidy, washing dishes and doing laundries, but when it comes to cooking, I just do it as a job. Somehow I can’t put my soul into it. I can do it with no problem, but somehow I can’t enjoy it from the bottom of my heart. That’s why I’ve never been free from this feeling, “It’s always I that I have to do cooking in this house. He never can be helpful, but I can’t help it, he’s too busy. Damn!”
So I thought it’s killing two birds with one stone if I blog about the weekend dinner made by my husband. I mean, I can keep records for our reference, and at the same time I can give you an idea what kind of meal Japanese people eat at home, for example.
It’s the very first Weekend Dinner post. Here we go.
This is the dinner we just had tonight. (The whole thing looks a bit green and dark, which is because of the pendant light over the table. The lamp shades are green. That’s why the picture looks a bit dark compared with those taken in a day time with no light over it.)

What did we have? Let’s take a look one by one.
1: Takikomi Gohan…It’s rice cooked with several ingredients such as carrot, deep-fried bean curd, hijiki, canned scallop, and etc.
2: Chicken + shimeji mushroom saute…I made this, because chicken thigh and shimeji mushrooms were left in the fridge. I just wanted to use them up.

3: Simmered pumpkin…I admit he cooks better than I do! It was sooo good!! 

4: Boiled Chinese cabbage and canned tuna…He simmered it with soy sauce, sake, sugar, and some seasonings. This was delicious too! 

I cannot believe but I have to admit he is good at cooking. I totally didn’t believe he can cook so well after years of no cooking experience. As a house wife, I could be embarrassed, but I’d rather wave a white flag to him and admitted that he does much better than I’d do. Sometimes I’m too short tempered to wait for better outcome. I tend to finish cooking asap because I have more other stuff that I want to do. But look at him, he totally enjoys cooking now!!
I’m totally happy to be served and to give him feedback. So far, I’ve thought I didn’t like Japanese food so much, but I had a feeling that his cooking could change that. I really enjoyed the Kabocha (pumpkin) and Hakusai (Chinese cabbage).
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